best quote: "They(these selfish people) know that they're difficult and won't respect you if you pretend they aren't. If you have a sense of humor, use it. Everyone loves to laugh. But keep the interaction short and sweet."
best quote: "Be the opposite of them: a possible person."
#3-how to deal with people you hate?
HATERS!
reasons people want to prove they're better than you,(when you just cant see the point, and you dont see how it can benefit them);
1-its one of their insecurities.you never know kan?they mustve felt threatened by you or somewhat.
2- they are definitely jealous.thats why they TRY to show you that they have something better.
3-in their creepy world, the ideal planet would be a place of people full like them.thats why they cant simply be more considerate instead.
4-theres a probability they dropped their heads once when they were babies.dropped so hard that they lost their common humane sense of being considerate and not impossible to other people.
5- someone treated them like that once;monkey see,monkey do! so thats why they're just looking for a vent to repay it back to some innocent soul.
6-its their hobby.kinda like how a sociopath( meaning;someone who has disregards for the rights of others) scribbles on the wall at how many times he/she made someone miserable,these people who want to prove they're better then you actually feel they gain a point in a game evrytime they manage to do so.
7-MAOA. excessive monoamine oxidase can disrupt the level of dopamines in your brain,thus interrupting normal chemical communication in the neurones. HAHA. :3
8- its the best they can do to make them feel better. therapy;is a word with extensive defintions,including those of the sociopath's
9-why people want to prove they're better than you? cuz THEY ARE JUST__________. (feel free to fill in the blanks with your own descriptive words)
inconsiderate people; lets just think they're there too keep the world at a balance.(?) *positive thinking*
Alhamdulillah.Praise be to Allah for making this happen.for giving me this opportunity.
nevertheless, nothing is confirmed, nothing is safe
and,ANYTHING can happen.
15 points, will you be mine?
insyaAllah.Biiznillah.fight fight fight!this is your LAST chance.dont do something you'll regret on later!
and, Prof Victor Lim..thank you to you too :) i guess u did go and try sakae sushi after i recommended it and somehow liked it?lol.
note to self: please, try not to talk abt and recommend sushi restaurants in a gossip-with-friend manner to your interviewers.please, its embarassing =.="
i bet if i dont translate the sentence i typed above, a lot of pple would still b able to decipher the code. :)
hes a cool dude.but,thats not number 1.most importantly, he's aware of his roots, and very much take to heart, of his duties as a muslim; to dakwah, 'spread love, and spread islam', as qouted by him himself.i've seen his first few clips, i think he wasnt THAT popular back then, but still, his videos catches my attention.eventho,that time his camcorder/ recording device is not as clear as now, i still liked his style. plus, hats down, thumbs ups to his loghat utagha. i think its adorable. heuheu~ astaghfirullahalazim.
the reason im writing this, is not to promote him or anything of the likes. Well, he barely needs any promotion now; d guys got his own domain name, and a email domain too!named after him. 0-0 thats like :wow.i dont think mahathir has his own emaildomain name. xD
this dude is legend...wait for it..dary! haha!
why he became so popular?here are a few suggested answers :
He's a tesl student, and he speaks english so dem well!not like those wannabees e.g: 'why you dont want to friend me?' type.haha. i rarely hear him mess up his tenses, and his speech comes out flowing,spontaneous, and very authentic.though, he does remind me of kevjumba sometimes,cuma, the malaysian version ^^ mnyejukkan telinga. and i might add, better too!
#2- his writings
i discovered his new blog abt a week ago, and the stuff he pens down was nothing near jibberish. he always chooses an issue, always something worth discussing,and then ,like, gives it a 360 spin, changing the way you'll view things, and again, his english is perfect.his writing style is one of a kind and engaging,not the typicalblogtype slang you see often now. his old blogspot site was worth a read too, but thats the more..literature-artsy side of him i think..there were a few entries,short stories to be exact, snd i admit i was hooked on to them. *-*
#3 -his style
the way he edits his videos, menyejukkan mata telinga hidung dahi.haha ok forgivemefortalkingnonsense. :|
and he himself:cool.selamba. relax.mata like a cross between dreamy and i-cant-b-bothered type.basketball hat,i think thats his favourite accessory and sometimes kaen pelikat!haha.i've always loved guys in baju melayu, and now he's making me think kaen pelikat is awesome too.gahahaha. *coughs*
plus,this dude has some serious authentic pure original (you may insert more words to accentuate my statement) sense of humor! cool and funny yaww!
but my number one reason why i salute this dude is:
---->his niat.and the messages he tries to portray.
when i first saw his vids, i walslike..okay.cam, not that noob, he's kinda funny, and he knows how to edit video and audio to make it interesting..but one thing i notice was how he tries to include advice, or pesanan, spiritually,i mean like yg ad kaitan dengan agama. like tazkirah..kot?
an entertaining, fun, eyecatching, and mind juggling tazkirah. and lately, he's been updating more too, sometimes sharing links on interesting articles, and reciting hadis in his vids.
to be frank, i'm impressed. so, this guy here,instead of doing acoustic covers or lypsinc/miming to songs or acting all goofy and making parodies, he chooses to utilise his free time to berdakwah..and to know that, ade lagi malay boys like him, kinda relieves me in a way,menyejukkan hati [haha.for d 3rd time] alhamdulillah. :)
so, whos he? do i need to spell it out,evryone knows dah pun. lol.
sejuk hati [4th time mentioning dat word] parents yang dapat anak like him..your parents must've brought you up real well to become the man you are now.
this is his latest vid.pengisian yang mantoppp.teehee.and i dunnoe if its just me, but his eyes are shining and gleaming cam mata spongebob :0
notetoSELF: kalau orang lain boleh buat,awk bile lagi cik adik oi?berdakwah tu tanggungjawab,sampaikanlah ilmu/ ajaran islam walau sepatah kata pun..
Dan hendaklah ada di antara kamu satu puak yang menyeru (berdakwah) kepada kebajikan (mengembangkan Islam) dan menyuruh berbuat segala perkara yang baik, serta melarang daripada segala yang salah (buruk dan keji) dan mereka yang bersifat demikian ialah orang-orang yang berjaya.(Ali-‘Imran: 104)
fathinnabilahabdulrashid,this is a reminder for you.
monday morning,10.30 a.m., i braced myself for the fact that today, i might have around 700-1000 rm flying out of my bank account (cuz i never have that much money in my pocket -.-) happily to some tauke's hand.
with a fullfledged sense of acceptance, redha and pasrah, i took my car to E.D kedai tayar dan battery.
i was REALLY relieved cuz d guy said it'd be 160 per tyre,so like around, rm640 la.YEAY!
pada waktu akhir sem yang sengkek ni, 360 makes a REAL difference. :]
*gamba xleh besaq lagi ka?* =="
goodyear tire x4 = rm640
and then tiba2 mamat tu cakap; 'ini aa,lu kene buat sekali itu alignment balancing.pasang baru munya taya mesti maw ini punya.oh, campur lagi duapuluh linggit a, maw kasi itu tayar tube,bole aa miss?'
and then, after i went home so that i wont have to linger at d tyre shop for one hour++, i received a phone call.jeng jeng jeng.........
die cakap tire camber saya senget.so saye kene tukar.so bertambahlah lagi KA CHINGG yang akan flying without wings T_____T
ohh and then ad add on value meal lagi.haha.(im merepeking :3) my absorber pecah.pecah?I dont know how i couldve manage to pecahkan my shock absorber.tahniah fathin nabilah.tahniah atah dahi mung!
camber caster x2 +shock absorber rear x2= 290
n den,puas2 dia pekena.xtually x puas lg.die suruh tukar battery cuz according to his dialogue and descriptions; "ini lu punya battery aa,bile maw start, dia ad eeehkk eehhhkk"
pekebenda lah ehkk ehkk tu pun ak tataw. huhu.baeklah apek,do wht u need to do.wht u got to do.so that my car will b peacefully blissed.(and my wallet will silently cry)
automotive battery x1=RM 160
so,adding all that up,plus discount sini sana, it was all rm 1130.macam major service!but thank god i drive a small car, if i drive a bmw x6, im sure maintainence like this would cost arnd rm5k!haha.so,bersyukurlah and be grateful that you dont drive a bmw x6 (padahal nak sedapkn hati je.)
like normal, dkat counter is ahmoi..no longer apek.so senyum2 mintak kurang lagi price x jalan brader! haha.as if i senyum kt apek pun id going to make any diff.so this lady, xnak jugak bagi less so finally, she gave me a shell helix face towel.
so,if u trase nak vogue gune face towel rm1k xpayah g susah payah usha website dior/ chanel /watev yg seangkatan, pergilah kedai tayar.LAME-O SUPREMO.
xtually kan.i dunno why i get real sentimental when i hav to take out huge sums of money from my acc.alhamdulillah, ade papa untuk bayarkan.yeay papa!my hero :D
Someday I'll wish upon a star And wake up where the clouds are far Behind me. Where troubles melt like lemon drops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me.
above; three messages i sent, around 1pm to my most favourtest lady in the world.sad,in a way,cuz thats all i could do.she battled with death in bringing me to this world.and bedridden for a week.not to mention put up with all my tantrums when i was a toddler; subhanallah.fthnnblhabdrashid.ish ish ish.
post mothers day- conversation with them..and since their lecturers, well, they just have it running in their veins kan,to give all dis pep-talk thingy.but still, in between those old stories he usd to tell me,there were a lot of foreign pieces of info to me.how come i never got to know of these stuff?
hurmn, parents have their own secrets too,no?
one more powerful anology from papa:
'there might be one day, you will love one boy.and to you,this one boy means everything,baek,henzsem..it can just so happen,things x work out..but theres this other boy, yang hitam legam, and this hitam legam boy (oh papa,kenapa kene cakap hitamlegam.nauzubillah *-*) loves you very much, and cares for you. macam mama dengan papa, never in my wildest dream.no no.it has always been just a dream to marry this most beautiful woman alive. and now, here she is sitting right infront of me;the most beautiful woman on earth,your mama.'
haihh.mane nak carik lagi laki camni -_-
i love both of you to pieces.thank you for making 1 more lemon drop melt today :)thnk you for this wonderfulamazingenthraling 19 years 6 months +.
i'd do anything for the both of you.
i wont need to wish upon a star, cuz i hav Allah almighty to hear my pleas.dark clouds or no clouds, i wont runaway cuz whatever it is He has set everythg in its path.HE knows whats best for me.and i put my full faith in HIM.
la hawla wala quwwata illa billah hil 'aliyyil 'azim.
astaghfirullahalazim x3
worries. afraid of the future? scared of the outcome. unsure of the path.trembling. questioning. anxious.
have u ever felt,soo.. threatened or anxious that you just feel like throwing up?up untill the dizziness gets to u, and theres this waves of uncertainty, hitting against ur chest.like, literally,you can feel this sort of sting in ur chest. a pinge. and u just cant sit there,waiting,fidgeting.
then at the same time, something you've tried to cover, hide from, get rid of, delete from your memory comes haunting back at you..in more ways than one?
ah.just a messed up bunch of emotions.
thats what makes us humans.
alhamdulillah.
ya Rabb, please help me,let me get through this. :/
my papa is 15 years young (?!) haha but i love him more and more.hes more handsome than evaahhh!!
cuz u know what?i'll never get tired of ur lame jokes and d way u will instinctively move your feet to brake the car whenever i'm driving! (:
although the surprise dinner plan didnt work out as well due to sudden complications, i hope we made you happy~
papa,you're my hero and ALWAYS will be my number 1 man. you're my idol, my strength, my inner courage and everfaithful supporter(esp economically,LOL)
i think i resemble you a lot,and everytime you look at me and say that sometimes i'm exactly like you,i cant help but to feel proud! yeayy!
so,it turned out a pretty planned posh dinner-just turned into makan2 at posh rumah:
-baskin robbins ice cream cake
-modified english bread and butter pudding (i put in nuts instead of sultanas in order to celebrate you!)
and
-peanut butter tart;a first timer's try-but mama said it was okay.so...hurmn.u ate it anyways kan?;p
tie polka dot + baju belang: papa, the new trendsetter.
i was putting on my tudung dat time and we were in a rush,tgok2 he's all dressed up like this.x sampai hati nak tego.heuheu~ bt i'm glad u were so happy with the tie! ^^
my birthday present was a last minute one; but it almost took all day! just a simple polka dot polo tie.SIMPLE? haha.round satu aeon jusco to find the perfect tie. with your old tie in hand,the ONLY one you wear from day to day basis, i went frantic in search of a tie with the same length, width, and resemblance in every inch.sampai all the salesgirls were like '.....apakah?'.haha.ikut pi la depa nak kata apa; 'knapa la budak ni bwak tie berbulu and pi ukuq2,ish peghak betoiii' (okay,dorg x exactly say that,its just my inner conscience x| besides, mai mana plak org melaka cakap slang utaghaaa.pergggh) hahaha.
dahla lepaih tu nak bawak ice cream cake baskin robbin tu bukan maen susah. kakak hak duk juai tu pon buat sombong tuuudiaaaa! ghasa nak lempang sbuteq tapi hati buat besabaq je la demi bli ice cream cake kat papa.dah sampai waktu order siap,nak pi ambik cake,depa kata dry ais habih pulak.aihhh,dekat nak naek angen dah cheq depa habaq lagu tu.dah la x habaq awai2.lpaih tu,cheq tanya bila nak buleh tunggu dry ice,depa kata minggu depan sampai =_____= aduih.skali lagi tangan ni beghasa nak mlayang jaa.tapi takpa.cheq tekad jugak nak bawak cake tuh.masa kita nak cepat laa timbui macam2 masalah.dengan traffic light nya, dengan jamnya, dengan gheta sini sana potong cheq nya...tgok2 cake tu ada cayaq sikit.tapi seb baek papa tak pghasan! hihi.
there you go.satu perenngan kut bahsa utaghaaa in tribute to u papa ^^ terer tak terer tak adik?;p padahal i think da becampur baur dgn loghat kelantan dah ni.hatoiiiii T_T
so finally; exactly at 12 a.m., we sang you and celebrated as a family!walopon sorang tu juz thru skype.lol.
